Now It's Getting Really Ugly!

You devote the majority of your life to marriage and children, then you are replaced by someone half your age. Somehow I didn't think it could get any worse until my hopefully soon-to-be-ex told me that our marriage had been a mistake.

As soon as I heard those words, the only thing that came to mind was the line from the Led Zepplin song D'yer Mak'er; "You hurt me to my soul". Wow, it really did.

That was hitting below the belt. He was not nice to me after we had children but this was the final blow. It is no surprise to me why this divorce is taking so long. He never respected me and expects everything to go his way, well I have a wakeup call for him, it is not going to. I am not going to let him walk over me any longer. He may have felt in charge during our marriage but I am going to be the one in charge of our divorce.

I am the only one that has made forward motion in this divorce. Even with attorneys you must be on top of what is going on. From now on I am going to be and hopefully soon I will get my life back.