It has been awhile since I have posted. Still stuck in the middle of this mess, the girlfriend long gone so he has no reason to speed things along. I knew she was only after his financial support. Being a narcissist he would never believe it, but I think women are able to see the truth that seems to blind some men.
He started this divorce and has postponed everything so it has led to a stall in the proceedings. Now even with attorneys we are headed to mediation. I would have opted for this in the first place but then I wasn't given a choice.
So it seems that my life is still under his thumb even though we have not lived together for over three years. Why are men still in charge of my life? From the attorneys to my ex, I am powerless in all of this and I don't understand why.
There is finally a light at the end of the tunnel as our mediation date draws near, wish me luck!
Here is my latest blog post for DivorcedMoms.com. Were You Hit By The Hurricane Homewrecker? http://divorcedmoms.com/blogs/divorce-rehab/were-you-hit-by-the-hurricane-homewrecker … via @DivorcedMoms
I hope you enjoy it!
