Well, my almost ex-mother-in-law never made it out of the coma. Her children took her off of life support and she died the next day. Sad really, my hopefully soon-to-be-ex wasn't even there when she passed. He was there when his dad died and could have been there for her but wasn't.
My almost ex asked that I not attend the funeral even though I asked if I could. I even said I would sit in the back. I think he was afraid I would say something about our impending divorce, I don't think he has told his family about his girlfriend even though it will soon be two years. I wouldn't have said a thing, bad timing and in my past now. Doesn't matter anyway I will probably never see these people again, now that his parents are both gone. The end of an era. Almost as if they were never here.
I wish I could have been there for my daughter. Her first funeral, I wanted to be there to support her but I wasn't allowed. I wonder how she felt. Her dad had tried to make our son feel bad about not going, so I am unsure of how supportive he would have been. It is more his style to want to be supported.
I did send a beautiful spray of flowers, that held the message that we loved her and would miss her. On her funeral page was the request of a donation to a cause in lieu of flowers but I knew this woman for over 30 years and she would have wanted the flowers. I sent them from her favorite florist, kind of a last order for her. I hope she liked them!
A link to My Cheap Fashion Fix, she wouldn't have liked this, she only shopped at the best stores! http://mycheapfashionfix.blogspot.com/
