Then of course, the email from my attorney, (Why always on perfect days?) an amended petition. (what?) I guess my hopefully soon to be ex has decided to change the date of exactly when he knew he no longer wanted to be married to me! This after seven long months since the date he first decided he wanted a divorce. Straight to divorce, no separation box was marked then, he just wanted out! After 24 years he wanted out now and he wanted out as fast as he could get out! As if there was a fire and he was running for the exit. HE started all of this, he made the decision, he got to choose!
Yet here he was at home, (at least it looked like him) except for the times he took his girlfriend to "business" events. He even told our kids that he had to go, it was important business! More important than spending time with his daughter who was getting ready to move away from home for the first time in her life. He was there on my birthday (one of the worst ones I have ever had). He was there for all of our birthdays. He was on our family vacation too (although he did seem distracted and detached),
but he always acted that way. Nothing too far from our normal everyday lives.
So I am really wondering why the change of date now? Does he want to keep the truth from his girlfriend? That he was still living with his family? Or is it money related? After all of this time I'm still not sure which he loves more!
Yet here he was at home, (at least it looked like him) except for the times he took his girlfriend to "business" events. He even told our kids that he had to go, it was important business! More important than spending time with his daughter who was getting ready to move away from home for the first time in her life. He was there on my birthday (one of the worst ones I have ever had). He was there for all of our birthdays. He was on our family vacation too (although he did seem distracted and detached),
but he always acted that way. Nothing too far from our normal everyday lives.
So I am really wondering why the change of date now? Does he want to keep the truth from his girlfriend? That he was still living with his family? Or is it money related? After all of this time I'm still not sure which he loves more!
My Cheap Fashion Fix
I spotted a top like this one in black displayed
in a designer window in Los Angeles last month.
Sleeveless trapeze top with center zipper by Fond
Purchased at ZFashion (10dollarmall.com online)
$5.99
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